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How To Embrace Your Slut

by | 8 Apr 2019 | Uncategorized

How to Love Your Slut!

Oh, how triggering that little word can be. I remember distinctively in school girls being named and shamed for having sex more than was deemed appropriate by there peers.

Even now as an adult the word gets throws around unabashedly. If you were to look up the meaning of this word in Wikipedia you will find remarks such as a woman or girl who is considered to have loose sexual morals or who is sexually promiscuous.

 It is used as an insult, an offensive term of disparagement.  

One of the reasons this word has so much negative charge surrounding it is because it can be used to manipulate others, therefore leaking your sexual energy as opposed to cultivating it. 

The slut is rife in our society. Porn is ever-present and more often than not the female who represents that is usually seen as a slut.

However what if we were to flip that switch and reclaim our shadow?

Words are only as potent as the meaning you give them. Over time i have realised that i have come to love my slut. 
 
This attitude has been greatly enhanced and influenced through many different women’s dance courses I have attended such as Embodying Erotic Divinity. 
 
In these safe spaces sexuality, the sacred feminine is celebrated in all of her forms. We were encouraged to dance out the many different feminine archetypes of our inherent sexual nature. One fundamental template, being the slut.
 
✍️Here is some food for thought✍️
Did you ever wonder who you may be without all your negative social conditioning around sex and desire? 
It’s pretty fucking confusing in today’s society for women to know where they stand. There is so much sexual shame. 
In one respect we are told to dress, smell, dance and act in a certain way.
 
On the other hand woman who does express there sexuality and pleasure and celebrate it through dance, movement, clothes and multiple sexual partners are deemed unsavoury, unwholesome and dirty.
 
Here is how I perceive the slut. Someone who says yes to life, to there temple body. A woman who revels in her ecstatic-ness, her joy, her confidence, her playfulness. It’s about being unapologetically comfortable in your sexual expression and desires.
The more time i spend on this earth, the more i open up to different possibilities and let go of the social conditioning and taboos around sexuality and desire. 
 
So what if a woman or a man for that matter want multiple lovers. Does this make them a bad person? 
 
 The slut is perfectly confident about having sexual desires that involve being called names, playing dress up, enjoying role-play and welcomes love making and self-pleasure as often as she wants, without rules and regulations.
 

We are only truly liberated when we can own all parts of ourselves inclusive of the shadows. The coy, the wild, the dark, the fiery, the animalistic and everything in-between. 

 
What we repress will eventually be expressed and not always in the manner in which you desire. In the wise words of Juliet Allen:
“A slut is an empowered woman who owns her sexuality and claims it with her full power and respect for others.”
 
The sacred coaching I do helps women reclaim all parts of themselves. the shadow, the light and the in-between phases.
If you feel you would like to explore your sexual sovereignty as a vehicle to growth then please feel inspired to check out my latest offerings.